People That Annoy Me

-People that cannot keep their mouth shut. If I tell you something or ask you to keep your mouth shut, then I am going to be pissed when you go and talk about it to someone else. And I won’t forget about it either. I will give you a second chance but after that you will never be allowed into the trusted zone again. You want to be close to me? Then respect my privacy and we are all good.
-People that feel the need to be snippy for no reason.
-People who are always right in their little world and cannot ever say “dude, I am sorry, I didn’t mean to hurt you by doing something you asked me not to do. I didn’t think I was doing anything wrong, but you do, and I am sorry.” Instead they want to sit there and have drama for ten months because that is better and it will probably ruin any chances of a future relationship. Yeah, you messed up, why can’t you just apologize and drop the drama?
-People who are fake. With me, you see what you get. I am who I am, if I act like I like you, then I guarantee you that I do. If I act like I don’t like you, then there is a chance I am coming off wrong, but there is also a chance that I don’t like you. Chances are though that you will hear from me sooner or later that I like you if I do, so there is no guesswork there. I don’t blame games and I don’t leave you wondering. People might think I am abrasive and I very well might be, but at least I am REAL.
-People who obviously think they are better than you are, so they constantly put you down in small ways and speak to you condescendingly. If you act like you think you are better than me, it is probably because secretly you have security issues and don’t think much of yourself, so don’t lay your issues on me.
-People who are lazy. There is plenty of time to sit down and relax if you just get crap done first.
-People who play the victim and act like everyone owes them something. Life hasn’t always been fair to me, but in the end I get over it and realize that I have it a lot better than many people so I get down on my knees and thank the Lord above that I am still here and alive and so is my family.
-Last but not least, people who insist on drawing other people into their drama. I heard a really good line in a song once, it said “check your baggage at the door”. And I like that a lot. I have drama in my life for sure, but if I have an issue with it, I don’t go around acting like a little spoiled brat and say “oh, well, I don’t want to be around so-and-so, you have to spend time with just me” or “you would not believe what she/he did, let me tell you about it first so that person can look really bad and I can come out smelling like roses”. If you and I have issues, they are our issues and no one else’s, so do us all a favor and check your baggage at the door.

I know, I am probably a total bitch, but…whatever. I am over it.

To end on a positive note: I am glad that because of my surgery I cannot drink much alcohol. I got to see first-hand what my future would have been and I didn’t like it too much. I know that I could not have controlled myself, so I am glad that option is taken away now. That doesn’t sound too positive I am sure, but believe me, it is.