Oh my gosh, when have I not? Yeah, I am all about being honest and everything but I also am a people pleaser too and I totally am all about pleasing the person I am with. No, i don't think it ever works out. Pretending you are someone you are not is never a good idea. The person you are with will eventually find out about the real you and then you will have wasted time. It is better to just be who you are and compromise with the person instead of be someone you are not.